answers 0:My wife's sister is a dental hygienist at an office about 25 miles from my house. I have been going to her for all 15 years of my marriage, however in the past year she got a divorce, I have been having more a more issues with my wife, and I am getting tired of driving that far to get my teeth cleaned. There are at least 6 or 8 dentists within a mile or two of my home, and I'm considering to change dentists to one of these nearby.Pros: 1. Save gas 2. Save time3. No family drama or gossip. Just go for teeth cleaning.Cons:1. Risk of getting a worse dentist. My sister in law is a great hygienist in a great office. I have no references around my house. What if I bother to switch and it's not as good?2. What if my sister in law gets offended, and now I get the evil eye at ev! ery family get together?3. What if my wife gets offended?By the way - I know the simple solution might be to just ask my wife, however she isn't like that. She would say "oh, it's fine" and then secretly be upset, and hold a grudge forever.What should I do?...Show moreanswers 1:1. Get a recommendation from someone else, otherwise dont change2 Thats the risk you take3 Whats she gonna do - start withholding sex?answers 2:I like Pearl's answer, haha.You might get a recommendationand go to the new dentist/hygienist in secret... but stillsee your sister inlaw hygienist every otheryear just to keep the peace.answers 3:dentists are like shrinkswhen you find a good one, stick with themits worth the extra gas IMOanswers 4:Should,nt deal with family members save your gas , and find someone nearer to you you dont need the drama anyways.answers 5:Stick with the sister-in-law.I drive 90 minutes for my dentist. But that is because he is HOT...not because we're related.answers 6:There ! is another simple solution, thats to grow up and make decision! s on your own. Harsh as that sounds it appears you have been expected to go to your SIL when you have perfectly good dentists locally.You have every right to go where you want and for whatever reason you want. So do it.
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